Marriage Counseling

Are you doing these 4 things that hurt your relationships?

Are you doing these 4 things that hurt your relationships?

Most people starting couples therapy come in focused on their partners’ flaws. Few people come into my office and say, “We’re here because I complain too often, I yell all the time and don’t help out around the house.” It’s understandable that when you’ve been repeatedly hurt by your partner, you would be defensive and see the need for change in them.

Men, Sex, Rejection & Shame - lessons from a Houston couples therapist

Men, Sex, Rejection & Shame - lessons from a Houston couples therapist

Sexual intimacy is paramount for men, playing a crucial role in their overall relationship satisfaction. However, the weight of shame from rejection during intimate moments with partners can strain the relationship. Getting help from a Houston marriage counselor or couples therapist can make a difference. Addressing these challenges in your sex life through couples counseling can lead to a healthier and more fulfilling relationship, promoting understanding and empathy between partners. Call one of our caring Houston marriage therapists today.

In a Narcissist Relationship? What You Can Do About It.

In a Narcissist Relationship? What You Can Do About It.

In my last blog post, entitled "Life With A Narcissit,"I talked about what it was like living with someone who has characteristics of narcissism or even full-blown narcissistic personality disorder. You may have recognized someone you know when reading about narcissism. It can be very overwhelming to deal with individuals who have these traits. Even as a victim, you may start to feel like there is something wrong with you. What can you do to remain emotionally intact?

Life With A Narcissist

Life With A Narcissist

During the recent presidential election cycle, people threw around the term narcissist or narcissistic personality disorder a lot when talking about Donald Trump. Many articles were written and tweets tweeted about the subject. As a therapist, I know that I can not diagnose someone I have never examined, but the discussions did call to mind my clients who have partners that exhibit traits of narcissism or even full-blown narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).

Why break-ups are so painful

Why break-ups are so painful

Love hurts, literally You can see the physical and emotional pain in the body language of someone who has gone through a recent breakup. It hurts to exist. It looks like it takes all their energy just to hold themselves up. The metaphorical weight of the world seems to be literally propped on their shoulders, threatening to crush them. And the distant, glassy look in their eyes betrays the fact that they are not fully present. It is too painful to exist fully in the here and now.

You Never Marry the Right Person

      You Never Marry the Right Person

Doing couples counseling can be some of the most rewarding and exhilarating work I do as a Houston therapist, but sometimes it is also heart breaking stuff. By the time couples come in to see me, they usually have years of frustration, anger and resentment coursing through their veins. They may even view their partner more as adversary than ally. Life is incredibly lonely and conflictual when you can not find peace in your home and in your marriage.

Relationship Conversations 101: Strategies for Better Conversations and Conflict Resolution

Relationship Conversations 101: Strategies for Better Conversations and Conflict Resolution

Learn how to communicate with your partner so you both feel loved and heard. If you are struggling with talking to your partner without fighting, our Houston couples counselors and marriage therapists can help you learn valuable skills to get along better. Call us today at 713-565-0922.